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the First Sexual Experience
is very important that the first time someone has sex everything should be
done to make it a satisfying and exciting experience. Plan ahead regarding
contraception, safe sex and any other vital facts you need to know, so you
will not feel anxious afterwards about getting her pregnant or catching an
and your partner should have sex when you are both ready and comfortable with
the idea. Allow lots of time to have sex the first time, like a whole weekend.
light, and avoid eating a heavy meal as this can make you sleepy.
drinking too much alcohol
helps if you are inhibited but it can cause a male to lose an erection or
have difficulty achieving an erection.
is important that you make love in a place that is very comfortable to you
both. It is not really suitable for exquisite lovemaking to use a car.
in the outdoors has:
really need a place that has:
bed (still the best thing to make love in)
might like to bring along:
form of contraception, (condoms, etc.)
a shower together before sex is a wonderful, intimate experience and can be
very arousing. Get to know each other's bodies. Take your time. That's what
lovemaking is about.
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is very important to show your partner what you like by telling him or showing
him by taking his hands and placing them where they make you feel good. He
may very nervous if it is his first time so go slow, his penis may not respond
at first. Patience, gentleness, and understanding are required.
your virginity may hurt but with the right touch and the right partner, you
should be able to take his penis into your body without pain.
Use a commercial lubricant like KY Jelly if you feel the need
him take his time to press his fingers into you, opening you up slowly.
him when it feels good and when it hurts.
position you use depends on many factors, mainly what feels comfortable for
the both of you. Choose what is best for you. Just go slow and take your time.
women prefer to have sex the first time being on top where they can control
the initial penetration.
want to be on the bottom and give their lovers that control.
first time do not worry whether you orgasm together or orgasm at all. All
will improve with practice and patience.
Some women do not orgasm during intercourse and may need to be masturbated
or have oral sex to orgasm.
Just enjoy yourself.
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biggest anxiety with men is that they will not be able to get an erection.
Nervousness and lack of confidence can cause all sorts of problems. Take a
deep breath. Do something else for a while with your hands, your lips and
your tongue. Try to forget about your anxiety, and your penis will respond.
you are a virgin and she is not, tell her before making love and she will
be able to guide you. This is very sexually stimulating for a woman to be
able to guide a man for the first time.
it is the first time for both of you it may be an awkward fumbling experience.
Being a good lover does not happen automatically.
If you have:
have all that is required to become a great lover.
can be performed in any number of positions. The penis and vagina can be matched
in many different ways, and each new position can bring new pleasures to you
and your partner.
have anxiety about premature ejaculation.
If you actually orgasm too soon, take your time, relax, and try again. The
second time you should be much more relaxed and ready to take your time.
of the major anxiety problems with men is the size and shape of their penis.
The average penis is slightly more than 51/2 inches in length when erect.
The vagina is capable of stretching to take a large penis, or shape itself
to pleasure a small one. Size has very little to do with your ability as a
common issue is shape. Some men become concerned because their penis bends
downwards, or to the left. Others worry that a downward bend will make sex
difficult or painful. It is claimed a downward-bending penis is much easier
to perform oral sex upon.
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