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Tools & Sex Aids
Because our society is in conflict over the rightness of sexual pleasure,
not everyone accepts the use of sex aids and sex toys. However, these days
sex devices are common lovemaking accessories used by both men and women.
It is a matter of personal preference to use or not to use sex aids.

Common
misconceptions that have been connected to the use of sex aids in the past
are:
- the
use of a sexual aid means you are a pervert
- using
sexual devices in a relationship means the relationship has problems
- if
you use sexual aids you can become addicted to them
-
homosexuals use sex aids more than heterosexuals
- using
mechanical devices during intimate moments is unnatural, impersonal
For
the most part sex toys are designed solely to increase pleasure during sexual
activity. They are mainly used to stimulate the area in and around the genitals
but can be used on other parts of the body.
Some
couples:
- like
the addition of sex toys in a healthy relationship
- prefer
not to use them after experimenting with them
- feel
insecure or threatened by the use of sex aids
Sometimes
sex aids can be a valuable addition in the treatment of sexual problems.
- Videos,
audio tapes and written material can help to overcome anxiety or lack
of information
- Sexual
devices can be helpful for some disabled people whose disability inhibits
their sexual expression. In order to improve communication and intimacy
- Sex
therapists suggest that couples who have concerns or fears about the use
of sex aids or toys should be encouraged to talk openly with their partner
about their feelings
- Sex
aids can be purchased in sex shops, or in catalogues etc. They are usually
sold in special erotica shops or through mail order catalogues. Visit
a reputable online Adult Shop
Caution:
The
use of sexual devices is not a substitute for relationships
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Vibrators
Vibrators
are electrical machines powered by batteries (more popular) or plugged into
electrical outlets.
- different
sizes and shapes (cylindrical or penis shaped in different diameters and
lengths)
- variable
speed controls
- sometimes
come with attachments for different parts of the body
- Click
here to view a range of vibrators
Caution:
- AC-powered
vibrators (plugged into electrical outlets) must not be used in
or with water
- battery
powered vibrators can overheat if used for too long a time.
How
to Use
- The
sexual sensations produced by a vibrator can be both intense and rapidly
felt and must be used gently on sensitive body tissue.
- To
cut down on the intensity of the sensation a towel may be used between
the skin and the vibrator
- To
make the vibrator more comfortable and stimulating try using a water-based
lubricant
- Many
sex therapists advise the use of a vibrator for women learning to give
themselves orgasms
- Vibrators
may be used them when you are alone or with partners
Sex
aids are not necessarily used every time someone has sex.
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Ben
Wa Balls
This
device is an oriental sex aid consisting of a set of two metal balls (one
solid and one partially filled with mercury). Although these are often used
in an activity with a partner this sex aid is usually used by women on their
own.
How
to Use
- The
solid ball is placed in the vagina near the cervix
-
The ball partially filled with mercury is also placed in the vagina near
the first one. When any movement causes the mercury filled ball to hit
the deeper one, vibrations are spread throughout the vaginal area.
Penis
Rings
A
penis ring is a metal, leather, or rubber ring-shaped device about 11/2 to
2 inches in diameter.
How
to Use
-
Slip the ring through the testicles and the erect penis. It fits tightly,
putting pressure on the dorsal vein of the penis
- The
penis ring stops the blood that has accumulated in the penis from flowing
out. This helps to retain an erection for much longer and prolongs sexual
activity.
- Penis
rings are worn to make a man's penis look larger under clothes.
Caution:
- It
is important for the ring to fit properly to avoid the penis and testicles
being bruised.
- Do
not wear the rings too tightly as severe damage can be done to the
genitals if blood flow is limited for an extended period of time. The
rings act as a tourniquet.
Erotic
Creams, Lotions and Oils
These:
-
are designed to make caressing and massage more sensuous and pleasant
- are
available in various scents and flavors
- can
sometimes be used as lubricants for intercourse
- flavored
creams, etc. can be used for oral sex or body kissing their partner's
all over
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different massage products
Novelty
Condoms (French Ticklers)
Novelty
Condoms/French Ticklers:
-
are
sex aids that fit over the penis to tickle and increase sensation in
the vagina during intercourse
-
are
pre-shaped (unlike normal condoms which come rolled up)
-
have
ridges and small probes
-
can
be reused after thorough washing
-
Visit
a Site selling condoms
Caution:
-
These are NOT birth control devices
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Masturbators
These
are:
-
sex aids with soft, usually latex sleeves
- sometimes
designed to resemble the female vagina into which a man can place
his erect penis.
If
this sexual aid is electrically or battery powered:
-
it can be controlled by the user to operate at varying desired
speeds
- it
creates a rhythmic motion which stimulates the man to reach orgasm
and ejaculate
Penis
Extenders
A
penis extender is:
- a
hollow penis-shaped device placed over the end of the penis to
make it appear larger
- usually
held in place by straps or a harness around the waist
Aphrodisiacs
The
word aphrodisiac is derived from Aphrodite, the Greek goddess
of love. An aphrodisiac is a potion or drug that causes sexually excitement,
heighten pleasure during sex, and help with sexual exhaustion.
Certain
foods have often been regarded as having aphrodisiac qualities. The
Greeks listed:
- eggs
- honey
- snails
- shellfish,
such as mussels, crabs.
Many
herbs have aphrodisiac properties such as:
-
-
-
- Browse
Global Herbal Supplies for Herb Information
The
Arabian Perfumed Garden recommends taking for three nights on retiring:
-
a glass of very thick honey
- 20
almonds
- 100
pine nuts to be
External
aphrodisiacs to increase the size of the penis included rubbing the
penis with :
-
the melted down fat from the hump of a camel
- bruised
leeches
- donkey's
genitals asses' members
- hot
pitch
Another
famous aphrodisiac is Spanish fly made from an extraction of cantharidin
from the dried beetle cantharides.
Caution:
If
swallowed, cantharidin causes:
-
an intense burning sensation in the throat
- diarrhea
- the
urogenital tract to become so inflamed that urination becomes
impossible
- engorged
and throbbing penis due to excruciating pain rather
Taking
Spanish fly can sometimes be fatal.
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