The Reverse Cowgirl
The Reverse Cowgirl gets it's name from the image of the woman "riding" the man like a cowgirl rides a bucking horse. This is one of the most common woman-on-top position and is the only position where the woman has the control and initiative to do what she likes. Just as woman like to be taken with great adore on occasions, men also like being the one submissive to his partner and and watching her while she takes the lead.
This position provides deep penetration and much sexual pleasure. New sensations and thrills can be experienced in the Reversed Cowgirl. In almost all the sexual positions the woman's movements are limited. The Reverse Cowgirl position however offers the woman her freedom to move as she pleases.
Men love to have visuals of their partners body. It is highly erotic for the man to watch his penis enter in and out of his partner. There is a lot of body contact in this position and it is great for stimulating the G-Spot. When in this position the couple are able to watch each others facial expressions and reactions to know what pleases them.
The Reverse Cowgirl position is ideal during pregnancy. No pressure is on the woman's stomach and she can control what depth of penetration suits her. This is also a good position for any woman recovering from giving birth or surgery because she can relax and know her partner won't overdo it.
This position is used a lot in pornography, marketed towards men. It provides the photographer with a full front view of the man entering the woman, whilst hiding the man except for his genitals.
How it works:
In the Reverse Cowgirl the man lies out on his back while the woman sits on top of him facing away from him. The woman straddles her partner's legs, which are held together while they align their groins for penetration.
This position can be used for anal or vaginal sex and can be performed in a kneeling or squatting position. The woman can have her torso upright or bent down more horizontally.
Some tips for the Reverse Cowgirl position are:
- before penetration the woman can tease a bit by holding her partner's penis firmly, masturbating him while touching her vagina with the tip of it.
- by rocking backwards and forwards, moving up and down, side to side and swiveling her pelvis the woman can change her angel and rhythm of penetration.
- this position offers the man freedom to touch his partner a lot. He can squeeze the full curve of her buttocks and run his fingers over and around her anus and she can stimulate the man's testicles.
- a whole new pleasurable experience for an athletic woman can be to swivel around on his erect penis.
- for men who suffer from premature ejaculation, this position is good for practicing delayed ejaculation. A mans erection and ejaculation reflexes are slowed down when he is on his back so he can use 'squeeze technique' to prevent coming. If he feels he is coming too soon, he can signal to the woman who can take his penis out and squeeze the top of the glands firmly between her fingers until he begins to lose his erection. She can then re-arouse him and they can continue making love.
- if a man has an uncircumcised penis the woman can gently pull back his foreskin as far as possible and then do shallow up and down movements on the head of his penis. This is best done in a squatting position which can be tiring but is very pleasurable to the man and can make him come very quickly.
Some disadvantages to the Cowgirl position can be:
- some of the variations don't provide as much body to body contact than others
- this can be unsatisfying for people who want a lot of thrusting penetration
- the woman does most the work in this position
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