• clitoral
• vaginal
• G-Spot stimulation

• Your partner lies down, knees bent and feet flat on the bed with a small pillow under her buttocks.

• Insert the length of your lubricated fingers into her vagina towards her navel about 2 inches inside the vagina.

• Press with one or two fingers against the front wall of her vagina applying a little more pressure than usual, as the G-spot is surrounded with tissue and is deep in the vaginal wall.

• Move your fingers from side to side. Get your partner tell you when you you stimulate the right spot. It will swell and firm like the erectile tissue in a penis.

There are vibrators designed for g-spot penetration.

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• Wear gloves that fit you properly (the best gloves to use are latex gloves as vinyl feels terrible)
• Always use water-based lubricant as oil based lubricants break down latex and can provoke vaginitis when used in the vagina. Appropriate lubricants are sold here.

• make sure your fingernails are cut short and are clean (in monogamous, infection free relationships)

• use latex gloves with short fingernails (in casual or infected partner relationships)

• if long fingernails are essential for any reason (fashion, music, etc.) place cotton balls around your fingernails and wear latex gloves over them

• use liberal amounts of water-based lubricant and wash hands thoroughly with hot soapy water afterwards

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• Rear-entry/doggy position is best during intercourse to stimulate the G-Spot as the penis presses against the front wall of the vagina, particularly with the man on top and a pillow beneath hips.

• To directly stimulate the G-spot lay your partner on her back and kneel between her legs using the thumb of your other hand to gently stimulate her clitoris. At the same slowly insert two fingers as far as is possible and comfortable into the vagina and rub against the bottom of the vaginal opening, pressing upward with the tips of your fingers until you are touching her G-Spot. Move your fingers from side to side exerting pressure upwards. If the fingers are pointed more sharply upwards you can rock forwards and back in a circular motion with consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vaginal walls.

• Thrust your hand in and out simulating a penis intercourse style then exert pressure upwards when withdrawing so that the G-spot is involved.

• The woman's pleasure is increased if you lick your partners clitoris and stimulate her G-Spot at the same time.

• hold her tenderly
• run your hands over her body
• touch and squeeze her breasts and nipples
• run your fingers through or grab her hair
• hold her hands above her head
• massage or penetrate the anus (always use a lubricated latex glove)

• suck your fingers
• run her fingers through or grab your hair
• touch and squeeze your breasts and nipples

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• Most women need firm pressure to the front of the vagina, quick rhythm and friction to have a G-Spot orgasm.

• The bladder should be emptied before lovemaking as some women get a feeling to urinate when the G-Spot is first stimulated.

• The woman may ejaculate a small amount of white or clear fluid when she has an orgasm after the G-Spot is stimulated which is similar to the liquid in the prostate gland.

• Smooth, round beads can be placed in the fingertips of the gloves to provide more intense sensations when the hand is inserted into the vagina.

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